Dear miyoid:

“he is putting me first as well and feeling miserable doing it”- then.. if he does not live with you, he will not be putting you first and being miserable as a result of putting you first.

“I would be miserable to think of leaving him because he makes me unhappy”- you write as if being unhappy is not a good enough reason to leave a relationship with a man.

“He doesn’t have anybody with him right now, since he  started to lose contact with his parents, I don’t know where he would live and be with. He doesn’t have a place to go or a good friend to count on”-

– I suppose this means that you want to give him a place to go to and be his good friend.. but why are you his girlfriend???

anita