Hi thank u Ms. Brandy & Anita for your kind encouragement! Lunch went great it was nice he seemed fine and I was relaxed. Yes my light fixture is up and looking good also! Ms. Brandy what you say about high quality non sheer swimsuits I don’t wear them I don’t swim never was a water or beach person but you make a valid point and maybe they should be checked wet in private before wearing in public I suppose unless the color is black or something. As an older mature old fashioned woman I felt wrong seeing that and felt guilty about how he would be embarrassed in front of me. It did take guts as you say Ms. brandy for him to say that to me knowing I saw what he saw when he realized what happened. Because I’m much older then he is he mustve felt the need to apologize to set the record straight. How are you making sure everyone is aware that this problem can occur? Did you recommend them to wet them and wear them first in private or maybe the bathroom? Remember his now discarded beige ones were perfectly fine and not see thru when dry it wasn’t until they got wet and out of the pool that they distinctly revealed his hair thru the fabric. I don’t think its necessary for dark or colorful ones because they shouldn’t become sheer. Glad I made you and possibly others aware of this and help avoid embarrassment it may cause the wearer and others. Jo