Dear Ryan:

I imagine that if you choose to resume the relationship with her, you will be in 100%,  and be her son’s step father, or father, for as long as you live. I can’t imagine you doing otherwise. Am I wrong?

You shared notes that she wrote, some of them read like diaries, entries that were not addressed to you. Does she blog, and you copied one or more of her blogs in this or a previous thread?

Those were unusual writings, on her part, very deep, thorough, very thoughtful… didn’t go together at all, in my mind, with the image of a mother yelling at her child.

anita