Dear Tania:

I am sorry to read the newest unfavorable news.

You wrote in your first post, six months into your marriage, on February 24, 2020 (minor editing of spelling and grammar): “he chatted with another girl whom he liked before.. my husband had feelings for her 10 years ago.. He said that his feelings for her are of just friends, but I read that chat, not like friends.. He used unusual chat apps.. He said he was wrong, but it’s because I’m too possessive, but he said that he don’t want to repeat that mistake again”.

Since then you learned that he secretly watches pornographic movies and most recently, almost seven months after your first post, that he “created a secret social media account and chatted with another girl”.

“The hurt I feel is so deep and I don’t know how to heal it.. There’s a baby inside my womb.. I don’t know how many women he chatted with before this. I feel that I can’t trust anyone anymore… He tried to manipulate everything to make it look like he loved games. But behind me, he did that.. Help me please Anita”-

I am so sorry, Tania, that this is your reality. If everything was possible for you right now, the best thing would be for you to separate from him and live away from him, independently, and arrange for him to financially support your child (and be involved in your child’s life as a co-parent, in ways that will  be good for your child).

Anything like that possible for you???

anita