Dear Madi:

You shared that your (former) best friend told you that you didn’t help him “through his tough times”- tough times, plural. If you didn’t help him through one tough time, then he recovered, had another tough time, you didn’t help him, and then another, then that’s one case. Is this the case?

If he was referring to one period of time that was difficult for him, and he experienced frustration that you were  not helping him, yet kept it to himself, didn’t give you the opportunity to correct your behavior and help him, and then he .. sort of exploded, and said: no more!- that’s another case. Is it?

anita