Hi Anita,

He explained to me that he was more than one time that I wasn’t there for him and he started feeling like I wouldn’t be there for him ever. However, he never explained to this to me while it was happening. He did reach out during those times but I guess I didn’t do as much as he was expecting.

When he explained himself, he said that he noticed with other people in my life, who are new, I have been putting in more effort than I ever did for him. I don’t think this is true at all and I tried to explain that but I don’t think he sees it that way.

At the time, I agreed to everything he said because I didn’t want to lose the friendship but now I’m a little lost because I feel like somehow all the things that I did do are being considered “nothing” because I couldn’t meet other expectations. We are currently trying to reconnect and I’m making an effort to simply check up on him and be present but I don’t know if I should bring up my own feelings on the matter or simply move on?

Love,

Madi