Dear Katie:

I agree empathetically: time limit is important because this waiting and hoping and waiting is not good for you mentally and physically. And it is unfair to you- you didn’t do anything wrong to him. Not only did you not do anything wrong to him, you did so much good for him, “so much love and caring”!

I will be back to the computer in about 12 hours from now. I hope you are sleeping restfully at this time, almost 10 pm your time.

anita