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Dear Jem:
It is understandable that you don’t want your future kids to struggle the way you had, and I hope they don’t. It makes sense to me that you are not fully satisfied with your current boyfriend- you don’t want to continue to struggle and work too hard, and have your children struggle too.
I don’t think that you are weird for crushing on his friend- this crushing suggests to me that a big part of you wants to end the relationship with your current boyfriend and get involved with a different man, a man who is goal oriented, educated and/ or who is materially successful- so that you and your kids will not have to struggle financially.
“Why do I attract drama confusion and conflict”?- I think that what you are trying to attract is not drama, confusion and conflict, but a more compatible boyfriend, so that you can have a more compatible life, compatible with what you need, want and value.
anita
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