Dear Saraswati:

I understand that he lied to you, but not all that he told you was a lie. Maybe he told you many things that were true, in between the lies. Questions in my mind:

– If he suffered a brain injury that significantly harmed him, why is he not willing to see a medical doctor for the injury- there may be a treatment or a rehabilitation plan that’s available for him. He may be able to get guidance as to how to deal with the results of his injury (?)

– As a father, isn’t it his responsibility to see a doctor on the matter?

– If that injury caused his erratic behavior, sometimes violent.. isn’t it your right as his partner and the mother of his child, to accompany him to see a doctor and become educated as to what you can reasonably expect from him in the future that is, to find out the nature and prognosis of his injury.. ?

– How can you possibly have a healthy, loving relationship with a man who lies to you and seems to not have a problem with lying to you… (?)

anita