So I had a few days to think about this and think I’m ok with being patient.  However, now I can’t get out of my head that now, I’m realizing I’m not that physically attracted to him.

Its a horrible feeling in my stomach and I feel awful for having these feelings and I don’t know what to do about it.  Part of me wonder if I’m just looking for things to be wrong, because I have a tendency to do that in relationships.

I’m not getting the firework, butterfly feelings around him, or when I think about him.  I never actually really had those feelings from the beginning.  When I think back of guys I’ve dated in the past, it was like an infatuation,  and I was incredibly attracted to some of them.  I’m not getting that with him, but maybe that’s a good thing?  I’m really confused how to get over all of this.