Hi Anita,

Thanks for sharing. I agree that I cannot heal from my mother with someone who displays the same behaviours. I have said it myself. I am sorry that you were neglected and abandoned as a child and that you had to create your own imaginings and fantasies as a child in order to know what it would feel like to be seen and heard. Reality is stark to that contrast and the truth of it, painful and heartbreaking.

I have no idea how I am going to get through this part of my life, but I know I am at rock bottom again. I also know that I have no energy to try repair a relationship that fell apart. I am barely able to help me. Thank you for your input, it counts.

Changeagent