Dear Rob:

I will need to re-read your recent post tomorrow morning, when I am more focused. For now, I would like to add that there is a general tendency many women have, to expect men to make it all better;  to expect a man to take her hand and lead her to the happily ever after ending of a fairytale. These expectations are not fair to men because men are not super-human. Men.. are people too, just like women. Men get scared, hurt and depressed, overwhelmed..  not knowing what to do next- just like women get,  and even more so, because of failing women’s unrealistic expectations of men.

You are welcome to add anything that you think may be relevant and I will be back to your thread in about 16 hours from now.

anita