Dear Danny:

Welcome back, it’s been more than 13 months since you posted last, having posted last before the pandemic, seems like a lifetime ago.

“after one of the last nights.. the intimacy level between us skyrocketed. Something switched and solidified our connection to more than casual. We spoke about this feeling, and discovered it was mutual, and left it at ‘let’s see how it goes’.. For full disclosure, I am actively seeing another girl too.. everything is casual”-

– I don’t understand:

(1) You already saw how it went: the intimacy skyrocketed and the connection solidified,  and she agreed, so what was the “let’s see how it goes” about?

(2) Since the intimacy skyrocketed and the connection was solidified, why did you continue a casual relationship with her (and with another woman)?

anita