Dear Kay:

You wrote earlier: “he has a point, we do not really know each other well, especially because I have like a wall in general with people, so I understand he does not feel like he really know who I am as a person”-

– my understanding is that he doesn’t know who you are as a person not because you have a wall with people, but because he does not care to know, he is not curious to know. If he was curious about who you are as a person, he would have asked you personal questions, beginning with one, single question, but he did not yet ask you any questions (“He does not ask me anything”).

When you asked him to ask you 3 questions about you, he couldn’t think of a single personal question to ask you. This is leading me to think that he is not motivated to know you as a person.

anita