Hi Anita,

I was confused actually. I was constantly being messaged by him on 1st Jan we chatted for two hours and yesterday he said he wanted to talk so we talked about 5 hours all night long. Then he said that earlier he used to come by to see one of the guys at work to see me or try to talk to me just to start a conversation. So i was like what? i didn’t even know him. So I would rather say just a hi. Its about maybe 5 months ago. At that time, i could feel about weird, the way he looked and everything i was uncomfortable and i could not face him directly or i would just leave that area pretending nothing happened. He was asking for me to go on coffee and stuff , i said no.  Also last night i asked him why he is not married, he said he is, his wife is in his home country. Also, he was not quite revealing his age when i asked him directly. Obviously, he looks older (45’s). I said as well its not obvious of me to be speaking during late nights.  He was not telling me the reason for him to speak to me at this hour, he kept saying next time he’ll say so i just said it myself because ‘he likes me’ and he was like ‘yes’. Then i told him politely that there is not going to be anything further than this. I don’t like hurting people but if i have to, i try to be at peace with them. He was not quite talking so that i put off. i was already so confused and my head was paining, i just said goodnight and i went to bed. I felt bad that he is married, today he messaged me, asking to sleep because i did not sleep whole night, i just replied i am big enough and he did not have to tell me this. Just trying to be little rude.

Sarah