Hi Anita!

Thank you for your quick response. Wow!

He says he is coming out of retirement for me only (now) and if we don’t work out he will remain celibate. He said he had the brief affair at least a year before he met me.

No I’m not a bad person but I feel selfish. He said on the day of the anniversary that his wife died that he would call me and considering that he thought I was the one his wife wanted for him, I thought we could spend some time together. He called me selfish and said that it was his day. I felt horrible.

Also, I sent him and his family Christmas gifts not expecting anything in return. He said thank you and that’s it. He’s introduced me to a couple of his family members including his parents so I guess that’s a good sign? However, because of COVID, on Christmas he was to video call to introduce me to the rest of his family but he flaked out.

There’s a lot more to this sordid story. I feel crazy even telling it.