Hi Anita,

I really appreciate your advice and showing me that I’m acting like an armchair psychologist. I’ve just been researching it a lot probably because I feel that I am one. I won’t throw labels around even at myself. I’m learning a lot about myself and in this journey I’m seeing that sometimes what I accuse others of is what I really am myself. I’ve got to work on myself a lot.

Yes, my instinct is that he lies. I haven’t. He’s been by my side everyday as I was leaving my marriage so he knows everything unfortunately. I guess I should’ve been stronger to stand on my own.

Yes, I agree with you Anita. Trust is an essential part of a relationship but is infinitely harder when it is long distance.

I know this website is going to help me identify and fix my foibles, weaknesses, and help me find the strength to heal.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.