Dear Tati:

It’s too soon to figure much about this beginning relationship, other than he is currently not looking for anything serious.  I understand that you already formed an emotional attachment to him, and that you are anxious now that he will no longer contact you. Maybe he will, possibly he will not. Relax, best you can. Don’t panic, and don’t express panic to him.

The positive part of it all is that he has a heart, from what you shared: he stopped you before having sex, making sure that you know that he doesn’t want anything serious, and that he didn’t come over to have sex- that’s huge, in a world (and in a big city like Miami) where lots of people are not that conscientious.

Have patience, best you can- if he does not contact you in the next two days, contact him, send him a short message, asking him about how he is doing, and take it from there. I hope you post again with an update about what is happening with this.

anita