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Tee
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Dear Sarasa,

have you ever told him that you like him more than a friend? Have you expressed your feelings for him? From what you’ve written so far, you sort of expected him to do it. You expected that when you wrote him the “goodbye message”, he’ll finally come clean and admit his feelings for you. But he didn’t. But neither have you.

You’re clearly suffering and cannot move on, even if you try to tell yourself you should. But we can’t just move on mentally, if we’re attached to someone emotionally, like you are to this boy. He seems to be attached to you too. You don’t know what he’s really feeling, but neither he does what you‘re feeling. I know it puts you on the spot to express your feelings openly, because what if he rejects you. But that’s the only way you’ll really know.

Because now you’re torturing yourself, instead of just admitting how you’re feeling. If he doesn’t share the same sentiments, then you can start really grieving and moving on. But if he does, it might be the beginning of something really beautiful.

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 8 months ago by Tee.