Dear Ishita:

Sometimes things escape me, words don’t register in my brain. You wrote earlier that you and this young man, X, had “real dirty flirting” going on- you were referring to some sexual activity, weren’t you?

If so, please, no need to be embarrassed: you are anonymous here. Knowing more will help me, and  more importantly,  it will help you understand better, so that you can figure out what is best for you to do next, in regard to X and in regard to future relationships.

anita