Afternoon Sammy, duly noted from your last post, I will say I’m not into playing games at all, all I will say is at first there was attraction, the way I am in relationships is I want to help in anyway possible, I listened to a lot of the problems she had going on in her life and tried to give advice, we did have an emotional bond to a certain extent because we shared everything, she opened up to a lot of personal history so we was close, this in a sense killed the passion in the relationship. For me being best friends as well lovers is what I want, for her it killed the attraction, I know everybody is individual and she has her own issues with comittment, I’ve given up trying to work it all out as it was clear to her it wasn’t meant to be anymore than what it was. As I said before I’m a very honest person and I’m not into inflating my ego, I’m just looking for someone i can trust, get along with and share a mutual love for each other.

Ideas for bday gifts, personalised gifts means a lot to me from someone I care about, I suppose it depends what means a lot to him. Its just a personal preference I think with gifts, don’t think gender comes into I know people who like to get whatever they can out of their partner, I just get more out giving someone a nice gift they appreciate rather receiving one, not to say I don’t like a surprise gift though because that shows that someone has gone out of there way to make you feel special.

I’ve not heard anything about an appointment thus far, can imagine there’s a big waiting list due to covid affecting a lot of peoples mental health.

Hope you had a good day, I have just relaxed as not much going on today, all fresh for a new week! And yes I’m quite lucky to live near the seafront always something to do lol

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