We stopped talking 2 months ago, the split was in September but we hooked up just after Christmas which just reset the healing process but something I needed to happen as before Christmas I just wasn’t accepting it was over even though we wasn’t speaking hardly, so really I’ve felt crap for about 9 months give or take lol.

No my friend isnt going through anything like that, he is totally different to me in that respect but he’s having some problems with addiction and his mental health, he has been there for me so I want to try help as best I can but all I can do is talk whenever he wants, only he can control his actions.

I know you’ve got a heart pal, just posting here after you resolved your initial reason for joining the thread shows that and your story is a good example of everything happens for a reason and things will work themselves out one way or another in the end!