@Rhaenys I hope you don’t feel I dismissed your posts. I’m very sorry for being defensive and I am grateful to you too for helping and putting your female pov across which at times was similar to @Sammy1. Things sometimes get lost in translation. I’m sorry. I wish you all the best with your date too and glad you’re meeting up soon.

I just want to add it is no reflection of you. I appreciate your input but I just turn to Sammy1 because she’s been here since day 1 of my TB journey so I feel a bond. A bit like I did with @Kkasxo. The same I felt with @Jay2023 over last few days because having a guy tell you, you’re not crazy for the wag you feel and he’s just as confused is reassuring believe it or not! Men don’t get to do that often. It makes you feel like you’re not alien or a crappy man. So I hope you understand.