@don @TeaK @Anita

Thanks for alll your posts so far.

I have been dishonest with you all, and I apologise. She has a boyfriend.

He knew who I was and my name as soon as she told him she had “met someone”.

He has still travelled to see her and has been here since Thursday last week. He’s here for 2 weeks, so will be leaving on the 17th (roughly).

There was a party last Friday, and she was all over me – flirting, touching me, laughing, chasing me around the flat… right in front of him.

I’m really sorry for not being honest with you from the start. As you can tell this is a really complicated situation.