Dear Anna:

I didnt have the fuller picture of “the lying, dissuading, stonewalling, and sending the message that my ideas ‘wouldn’t work'” that you provided in your most recent post. Particularly, I wasn’t aware that you were actively trying to solve with him already existing debts. Of course, I can see that the repeating lying by itself is an act of his betrayal of you, and I am sorry, Anna- I wish this didn’t happen to you. Betrayal by a person we love is a very difficult thing to process.

You are welcome, but I did not create this online space for you. I am a member, just like you- only very active. I will probably have more to say in about 15 hours from now. It’s been slow on the forums for a long time, but I hope other members answer you as well.

anita