Thank you for your reply Anita! 😊

yes I think you’re right it’s never occurred to me to find out exactly what she is looking for so thank you for pointing that out.

So when she reached out to me initially she wasn’t interested in persuing  any relationship with me. But over the next few months we got closer and closer and then I couldn’t take it. I told her that I’m getting feelings for her and she said she wasn’t looking for a relationship at that moment in time.
So maybe it is clear that she doesn’t want a relationship but I don’t think we’ve communicated about this openly enough and I’m yet to find out exactly what she wants.

I would love some help in improving my communication with her thank you! ❤️