Dear Dee:

You are welcome and thank you for your appreciation.

“I actually really want and desire the current relationship that I have. It’s unconventional and I would prefer that we be more truthful with each other, however there’s so many other details of the relationship that I wouldn’t change for anything! .. No one else in the world I want like this for sure… I would be totally open to trying the open relationship.. truthfully am living my almost ideal life”-

-maybe an open relationship is your most ideal relationship at this time, making for an almost ideal life: no expectation of monogamy= no betrayal of monogamy, in other words: if polygamy is agreed upon as a relationship-rule, then.. polygamy is no longer a relationship violation.

It’s like having an Out within the relationship, so there is no need to look for an Out outside the relationship. Am I making sense..?

anita