Dear Charlotte:

Sometime after I posted to you last and before I read your most recent post, I thought to myself that if you choose to go for a second child, you will have to have the best prenatal care and the best postpartum care (the care of the mother after giving birth) by the best obstetrics team that will include perhaps a counselor, so that you feel that you are in the best hands. Maybe you can get in touch with such a team/ service now so to discuss your dilemma with them, and get a feel for the place?

I will reply more to your recent post tomorrow morning, good night, Charlotte!

anita