Dear Kiken:

“I do want to get out of town…”- make sure that you are clear about your exact position first, and then communicate to him your exact position in a straightforward way, in a strong but not angry tone of voice (or in a clear, straightforward email, which will give him more time to absorb what you tell him).

After that, hear/ read what he says. If you give him the opportunity to fully understand your clear position, and then he disregards it.. then you have a serious friendship problem. I hope this is not the case. Let me know.

anita

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