Dear Anita,

Yes indeed you got it everything right! Every single person I’ve asked, young & old, they say the same with you. That essentially he was love bombing me to have sex early on. Once he saw I have standards concerning intimacy, he quickly dropped the mask, due to boredom. It’s not fun when you don’t get what you “work” for, right?

I didn’t call him, we were texting and I was just testing him. Of course, I knew all along that his answer would be ambiguous or negative, nor did I want to go out with him. I just did it to confirm how much my intuition actually works 😆 I think, it does work fine.

This coming Saturday is his sister’s birthday party to which he invited me on the 1rst date. Guess what I did today? I booked tickets to go to my island and spend Friday and the whole weekend together with my sister, mom and some friends. Also, guess what? I haven’t told him yet! Tomorrow my uncle who died 2 years ago is going to “die” again and poor me has to go for the funeral…

Am I proud for playing such games? No. But it does feel so sweet, to get innocent revenge on him. Why won’t I just tell him we’re over? Nuh, does he deserve it? I will tell him Monday morning I guess. I dunno. I told him I dislike games more than the devil. He is disrespectful.

Two hours ago I got accepted to study Hebrew. It was a LIFE LONG dream of mine.I feel so fulfilled!!! I told him and he knows what this means for me and he literally texted: “Good for you. You are a busy woman and you look the part”. In Greek, it is a full blown barb. This remark alone, solidified in my mind not only that he is an insecure, selfish and narcissistic baby that needs attention 24/7, but also that I’ve very glad to not believe his lies in the first place, enough to fully surrender myself to him.

He makes no time to see me this week, makes no plans yet he expects me to stay home and do laundry and be Happy about it? No señor.