Dear Lisa,

I’ve taken a look at your previous thread, haven’t read it all, but I did get an approximate idea of some of the key moments in your life so far, including your childhood. I see you’re blaming yourself a lot, while at the same time trying to love yourself (“i told him i was going to change. and i did. i developed my self love and self worth.”). But it seems that on a deeper level, there’s still a lot of self-condemnation.

I love him but should I have to stay paying for that mistake I made

What is the mistake you’ve made, that you believe you should pay for,  i.e. that you might deserve poor treatment for?

• This reply was modified 3 years, 4 months ago by Tee.