Dear Lindsey:

I like your field with hidden bomb analogy.

“I’ve been doing a really great job of not engaging with my ex“- congratulations for a great job!

“2 men have asked me out since I put single on my Facebook page… one of the men and he invited me to a movie and dinner.  He has a lake house about an hour out of town.  He said my dog could come…  I told him I’m not going to sleep with him.  I asked for his intentions and he said I’m not going to lie-I want to get to know you but yes of course I want to sleep with you. I’m attracted to you“-

– if you can handle a movie and dinner and time at the lake with your dog and this man and not sleep with him, you may enjoy a nice break from work and parenting and your ex. But I don’t want his place by the lake to be… another field with hidden bombs, for you!

anita