Dear Jisoo:

It doesn’t read like a good situation for you. I mentioned in my first post that he may see you as an intimate friend- an person who is an intimate friend doesn’t hide basic information about his life from his intimate friend, so I was wrong.

You confronted him and he said: “I am good with u. Why do u bother about other stuff?”- that’s a self-centered response: he is good with you and therefore .. it doesn’t matter that you are not good with him?

I don’t know his motivation for keeping the communication with you going, but it seems that his motivation is not even close to yours. I vote for.. moving on!

I am guessing it will be difficult for you..?

anita