Hi Anita, thanks for the quick response. Yeah I ll rest my case. As is ,I am no longer interested  in him romantically , started seeing someone who stays close to me..but I got curious in a psychological way as I have never known someone in that way.  Only came across guys who wants to get intimate whatever be the name was..casual or serious. This behavior is new to me and truly trying to understand  people.  Ladies, does anyone of you have a different view point ?