Dear natalee:

“he looked at me today and it felt like the old times“- it felt to you like old times, but maybe it didn’t feel this way to him. Sometimes a girl only imagines that a guy feels love for her, or has a loving interest in  her. She sees the guy’s eyes, the way he looks at her.. and imagines that he feels what she wants him to feel. But sometimes it’s only the imagination of the girl. This is why it is important to not make choices based on what you only imagine to be true.

You can tell him something like: I saw you looking at me the other day and it seemed to me like you were thinking about getting back together. I could’ve been wrong, was I wrong? Then listen to him: maybe he wants to get back together with you, maybe part of him wants to and part of him doesn’t. Maybe he does not at all want to get back together with you.

Be careful to not hurt your ex in the same way: get back together with him, but still interested in the new guy.. ending up flirting with the new guy and hurting your ex yet again.

anita