Dear AK,

you are very welcome, I am glad it was helpful. And I hope you had a pleasant trip with your parents.

I kinda know the answers I will get for these questions but it’s good to say (or write in this case) out loud.

So would you like writing down those answers, and then I can perhaps comment? These are the questions you are asking:

Am I wrong to think that in the right relationship the person will accept all of me? Or I will only find the right person when I am fully healed.

Growth is a never-ending process. I have been changing, learning, growing and healing since I was 16. So when will this process end? Will it never stop?

Does that mean that you only need people because you have unmet childhood needs, if not you will be happy alone?

I’d gladly give you my perspective, but perhaps it will help you if you first write it down? Whatever suits you best, I am in.