Another update. We’ve had a very emotive call and she decided to cut off the communication for good as interacting with me and even seeing my presence is painful and sad to her.
What surfaced during this interaction is that she indeed still loves me, misses me a lot and doesn’t feel romantic love when it comes to my former friend.
Yet she still wants to try things with him and absolutely doesn’t want to give us two a chance, she wants to move on.

She also refused to meet face to face and give it a proper closure, which sits very wrong with me as I think it is only the decent thing to do when it comes to such a lifechanging decision.

At this point there isn’t really anything I can do but any insight is still welcome.