Dear TeaK,

You should accept your height as a given, same as gravity is a given on this planet. You cannot change it. Focus on things you can change – and there are plenty – and you’ll find happiness and peace of mind.

= I’ve been trying to accept my height… i never complained about it for the past few months… i just dont want anyone to expose it completely to public, it’s too much for me….
This friend of mine who posted that pic, she’s actually “fat” but she posted that pic because she looks thin there, i really hate it why must i come to her treat that time… it was her birthday treat… all i did was make her happy by attending her treat to make that picture look like she has a lot of friends…. I actually dont want to attend that gathering, but i feel bad for her and that’s why i came, but in the end it only resulted in a negative impact on me.

She’s also the person who posted goofy pics of me, like it really made me struggled for quite few months…. I dont think she’s a positive friend for me at all. I’ve seen some person who cut off ties from her too.

I know what u meant by accepting, but i dont see myself camouflaging my height as a problem… i dont mind if people find me short when they meet me (at least i can accept it better) or saw me in person, just not from pics especially if another person posted it, it’s caused by other person’s actions…. That person who posted that pic, she also camouflages her fats…