Anita,

I’m reaching out to the  mediator today and setting up an appointment to start the process with my ex.  I have a friend who is very smart and he is going to help me prep for it.  The kids were with my ex for Halloween which was not fun to deal with.

So regarding the last time we spoke about Marty.  I believe I was a little triggered by some of the statements he made.  However, I found him arrogant and realized he was not look for the commitment I am interested in.  I am already talking with someone else.  This is almost like an experiment to see how soon I recognize red flags and choosing to get out of situations in a healthy manner.  Also it shows how quickly everything moves forward without looking back.

Lots to do this week. The weekend went by way to quick

Lindsey