Dear Mollie:

“I know one might suggest medical help from a therapist or something like that. I am not against this, but I would prefer to try and work this out myself with the help of this forum initially”-

-I am wondering (1) why- although you are not against seeking medical help/ psychotherapy- you are not for it, (2) did you read my many replies to members on this thread, particularly the member posting here right before you, and if you did- was there anything helpful to you in my past replies (?)

anita