Dear Andrew:

I am still looking for the reason you feel guilty, the reason you feel like a bad person who needs to be punished: I am glad to read that you do not feel guilty about your mother living in home care, or about losing your house

So now I wonder, do you feel guilty regarding the death of your father. Is it that you feel guilty regarding your father: maybe you feel that you were not a good son when he was alive.. maybe you feel guilty about his death back in 2017?

OR your guilt may have something to do with the nature of the abuse inflicted on you by your sister.. what did she accuse you of, or criticize you about?

anita