Dear Teak,

Thank you so much .

“Does your family know about it? I am asking because it seems this male friend of yours is flirting with you again (after some months he started showing interest again (current)), “

ya I told my sis that he is flirting with me again and that how he turned out to be a very different person in the past (out of sudden) most probably because he found someone..

and my sis started to take his side ,she want to take anyone‘s side but not my husband simply because my society is full of racism… and my husband doesn’t match my family parameters..w

„Have I understood it right – that he is flirting with you again, in hope of marriage? Or he is not flirting, but showing interest in being friends again, after months of ignoring you and not talking to you? And you don’t trust him (rightfully) because he might not be honest with you but has ulterior motives, such as borrowing money from you?“

i think ya .. he is flirting with me again ,in hope for marriage .

i dont trust him because he was very interested before 2 years.we were best friends,he would flirt , talked nd teased me  but he never asked for something official or even marriage so I guessed he must not be interested in me romantically, at that time as I went for a relationship than he told me „ how much he likes me „ and want to marry and he is waiting for me and that I should let him know when it doesn’t work out ..

Unfortunately The relationship dint work out. Than again this flirting went on ,teasing,talking all but nothing serious..

untill After months I got confused and someone asked me out in Germany..he was looking decent and of same culture.. i Started seeing him ,because I was tired of  waiting for something serious from that“ best friend“ ..

As I was a bit busy with my full time job and my new guy .I was not interested in flirting with my

so again he told me how serious he is …

I will continue this..

…….Continue…..