Anita,

No I have not reached out to him.  I feel like in the last 2-3 days he has not texted as much.  Honestly I’m starting to think none  of this is worth my time.  I did not think about your statement “no means no.”  But that’s exactly what he was doing.  He would keep at it 2 or 3 times and I would either say no or put my hands over his hands.   My impression was that he was pushing my boundaries…almost like dipping your foot in the water to see if it’s cold.  I will definitely come home and send you a message depending on what he says.

I’m not anxious or feeling really bad.  I feel conflicted.  If someone was persistent like that with sex are they really interested in ME? Or are they wanting one thing?  Even though he takes me on dates? I have no idea.  I have not heard from him at all today and in the past he has texted by now.  The entire situation seems off to me….What if the person he has acted like until now is not the person he really is?

Lindsey