Dear Peace,

it’s like 80 pro cent Informatics and 20 % medical .and I m more interested in IT side like doing programming stuff..

Good! If you are more interested in programming and the IT side, and not so much in the medical part, it means it’s a better career choice for you than being a medical doctor (or a physiotherapist). You made a good choice, following your own preferences!

ya she responded.she said she dint say anything wrong .and she keep asking “ what wrong did I say??” several times..

It’s a pity she doesn’t see how hurtful her words are… Also, when your husband told her she should be proud of you, she asked why should she be proud of you since you didn’t become that what she expected of you (medical doctor or physiotherapist). It tells me she has very little empathy and understanding for you, truly believing that you shouldn’t have a say in what you do with your life…