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Dear Lindsey:
I am fine, thank you. It made me smile to read that you’ve been busy mostly with your kids, which means they still come first (to Jasor and/ or to anyone else!), that you got an average to above average rating at work, that the relationship with Jason feels normal and healthy so far, and that you resolved the women issue that troubled you before.
“The only thing that bothers me is when my ex sends messages on The Family Wizard, they can be very unclear and mixed up in communication. Just dysfunctional in general. I’d like to not get into a back-and-forth text just trying to understand. I was wondering if you had any suggestions” –
– Maybe you can put together a special dictionary where you list the “very unclear and mixed up” sentences or part sentence they use on one side, and on the other, very clear and simple interpretation. Next, you can come up with an appropriate reply. You can give me an example of something very-unclear-and-mixed-up that you read in the communication, and maybe we can come up with a very-clear-and-simple interpretation, and an appropriate reply. This can be the beginning work of putting together this … special dictionary.
anita
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