Dear Anita,

You are so smart. And, you have helped many people here!! Sometimes, one needs to step back in order to see the whole picture. I see such oppositions as small steps to get past what there is in me that might have done the same. It is a way to work on myself. Believe me when I say that there is no arguing. One can not convince a person of something they wish not to listen to or not to believe in. I know that I can only change myself. Hopefully for the better. Thanks for your words of encouragement.

Tommy