Dear Petalinthewind:

You are welcome and thank you for expressing your appreciation.

“He told me once that I would never be lonely again” – it is so easy to say words, so quick, so effortless… for those who don’t care about following their words with actions or any real, ongoing effort.

“I asked him at Christmas for a phone call and he told me he would not be able to talk to me for 3 weeks” – a phone call was an action he was not willing to take, an effort he was not willing to exercise.

“He loved his wife very much and admitted it… he still loved his wife” – the quality of a person’s love for another is tightly connected to the person’s character. His words to you were empty- that’s his character. This means that what he told you about his wife, as well as many of his words directed to his wife were/ are also empty.

“I have had a good day today. I didn’t overeat and I ate healthy” – congratulations for eating healthy and not overeating! I

“I worked really hard and spent time looking after my in laws and cooking for them” – it’s hard work, not words, that you are dingo for your in-laws and for your husband. I hope that they appreciate your hard work and character!

anita

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