Anita,

Regarding the earlier message yes. At first the attention from my friend was flattering.  Our friendship started over 2 years ago when I was struggling and newly divorced.  He was very supportive. However, within the last 6 months or more?  his messages started to get more and more vulgar.

I believe this is a boundary lesson that I’m not great at.  If I tell someone I don’t like that and they continue the behavior-cut off that friendship.  Way easier said than done.

Lindsey