Dear Lindsey:

“Can you do me a favor and tell me everything is fine” – you are okay, Lindsey: you can handle your passive-aggressive ex, you are and have been proactive for a long time: you are doing well! (How many times did I tell you good-job lately and well-done?!)

“I thought it was hilarious. Jason seemed grossed out. This morning I said sorry if I grossed you out last night” – so he was grossed out, so what? When you told him about him asking you for close to $400 for the weekend trip, I was grossed out by him! So, we get grossed out and we get over it!

anita