Hi Ariel, you posted last week that it was only 44 days you had been together. People advised you that wasn’t even ling enough to know a person. I thiñk it was on that thread that people posted about anxious attachment. That is something I have experienced too.

You said that you are 48 and he is 30, and that he lives with his mother who he has a troubled relationship with. He had told you from the outset that he liked you but is still looking around to meet other women. I gathered that when he began withdrawing from you, you contacted him telling him how much you live him.

I think you should stay away from him and commit yourself to getting help with your anxious attachment.

You still have time to get emotionally and meet somebody who would be suitable for you who you could have genuine  happiness with. If you don’t make that commitment to yourself, it is likely that you will continue the letter of over-investing yourself emotionally with the same result.

I hope you will look at this honestly and do the right thing by yourself, and that dies not include this relationship.